Do other new moms escape the guilt of leaving your newborn with a sitter?
Ok, so mine’s now 2 months old, but today was the FIRST day that I left her under the watchful eye of a babysitter friend for 3+ hours so I could go to the gym, bank, Target and then grocery shopping in peace. And, I didn’t feel the tiniest shred of worry or guilt for leaving her. I said goodbye/be good and walked out the door… no problem. Down the elevator, into the car, and woohoo! I’m freeeeeee!!!!! Am I a heartless mom? Hell no!
In my humble opinion, too many new mommies fall into the trap of “I can’t leave the baby” or “She’ll know I’m gone, wonder where I am and have abandonment issues…” Nonsense. It’s a BABY. They won’t remember. As long as you have a responsible sitter of sound mind and body to keep the baby alive for a few hours, there’s nothing to feel guilty about. I have things I need to do. Errands need to be run. Food needs to be purchased. My mind needs a rest from all-things-baby. I need a break from feeding this little pooping machine, I don’t feel guilty about not feeling guilty. Neither should you!
